Do you want to learn how to appeal to people, be happier, healthier, and freer? How to Make People Do What You Want will get you started on that wonderful path.
Modern life distracts us from what's really important, causing us to forget who we really are.
None of us were born with fears, depression, or nervousness, no, something in our lives along the line pushes us into a downward spiral, careening into problems left and right. The solutions to these problems may be staring us straight in the face, but unless we try, we'll never figure it out and reach our full potential. For some, dealing with people can be very stressful, but it doesn't have to be!
The hangups and baggage that weigh us down need to be set aside, we need to become free. Many kind, caring, and intelligent people repel potential friends, employers, and even future spouses because they're not socially perceptive, they don't understand how to attract friends, and they don't understand what impression their words, actions, and behaviors may give to others.
This skill is vital to learn because not one of us is an island, we can try to live by ourselves, but we make life so much more rich, easy, joyous, simple, and relaxed when we work together with friends to reach a common goal.
Life doesn't have to be so difficult, the repetitive, boring, stressful, and unpleasant life you probably live is not a necessity-it's up to you, it's your choice. Choose wisely. Doing and learning new things will inherently require us to make changes, big changes, and this will feel uncomfortable. Our "comfort zones" lock us into a cage, a self-made prison that limits us and keeps us away from the unknown. Adventure and pure joy start when we step out of our comfort zones, we embrace the great unknown, and we follow our deepest dreams.
You won't want to do this alone.
The politically, spiritually, culturally, and socially divided and increasingly polarized world we live in can cause us to reject good friends because they don't feel the same way as us. In the hard times that are soon to come, we will have no option but to unite with our neighbors to help each other and to survive-why wait till then? Why not build a community now?
This book will help you:
- Overcome low self-esteem or too much self-confidence in order to live without stress, fear, nervousness, and dissatisfaction.
- Make a good first impression, help people understand you, convince them of your advice, and understand the subtle cues that can reveal to you what they're thinking.
- Learn empathy and how to do more than just feel for your friends, but actually feel with them.
Be a joy to be around, a universally attractive person, be the kind of person everybody wants to be friends with.
Understand how others think and how you yourself think so that you can grasp why people do the things they do and how it can benefit you and them.
