Has your marriage been destroyed by an extramarital affair?
Do you feel confused and angry? Are you constantly looking for explanations and trying make sense of what happened?
Once trust is broken, can it ever be truly healed?
The discovery of betrayal leaves a person vulnerable to the pain caused by a dysfunctional partnership or marriage. Among other things, a disloyal person usually leaves behind a series of detectable traces. Letters, messages, social media posts, changes in mood or habits or in self-care.
These clues are sometimes so evident that it is a valid consideration to wonder if the partner actually wanted to be discovered.
Disloyalty does not necessarily mean physical or sexual disloyalty. It is just as likely to mean emotional or intellectual disloyalty. Either way, over time, both have tangible consequences.
In these situations, it is often the case that a person is too closely bound into a relationship to see the disloyalty - or perhaps that person denies to themselves what they know to be happening. However, once discovered, and accepted, the evidence becomes incontrovertible.
In many cases, self-denial is a common aspect of the situation that allows disloyalty to flourish. You don't want it to be happening, so you deny to yourself that it is.
Betrayal represents a direct attack on self-esteem. Not only will we feel angry, emotional pain or even hate, but it is a common occurrence to feel humiliated. This can lead to the risk of falling into depression.
I recommend that you read this book if you want to address the issues that arise from being betrayed.
- Because you have been betrayed.
- Psychology of betrayal, differences between men and women.
- How to recognise the signs that someone is being unfaithful.
- Preventing betrayal.
- What to do when you have discovered that you are being cheated on.
- The most effective techniques for overcoming emotional and psychological pain.
- How to explain the situation to your children.
- When is it worth rebuilding and saving your marriage?
- When is it appropriate to end the relationship and go your separate ways?
The exact process that I will share with you has led many of my clients from a state of hatred and revenge to a state of awareness and acceptance that has contributed, over time, to them building a happy balance.
Betrayal often occurs at a particular moment in the life of a couple. Most often, it is the result of a critical situation about which the two partners have lacked the ability to communicate or to appropriately deal with.
You have finally found the answers you were looking for. This manual can be read in a day. The sooner you begin reading it, the sooner you will have the help to enable you to build a solid and peaceful future for you and your family.
